Life of a boy mom

someone told me once that your inner voice is created by those around you in early childhood. this means that how you speak to your child is how they will speak to themselves subconsciously. I know this to be true. think about how you speak to your child, Do you treat them like a burden? do you get irritated when they ask for ANOTHER snack? Do you listen to their stories while tapping your foot impatiently? Do you interrupt them? Think of the last conversation you had with your kiddo. Do you remember what they were telling you? did you look up from your phone? Did they get to finish, or did you get annoyed half way through and say something like "ok, but what are you supposed to be doing right now?" Im not judging. I am guilty of these things sometimes too. But today I am making a promise to try harder to be the inner voice I want them to have. I want my boys to grow up feeling  secure loved wanted needed assured heard important smart validated In order to d...